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The birth of my second daughter, shortly after Mr. Obama won the election, got me thinking about the future of my two daughters in this country. Mr. Obama’s election made me very optimistic about the chances of my two girls in the United States. A country that reconciles with its past and elects a person of color to the highest office is a exhibiting signs of a maturing culture, and I was happy that my girls would be growing up in such a mature society.

As a child I had read about the struggle of women in the American society for equal pay and equal rights. In India I never felt the need to think about equal pay and equal rights because, although India is a relatively old civilization with conservative values, when it comes to gender equality, I felt like India was leap years ahead of the rest of the world. There were many reasons why I felt this way, starting with the fact that while most countries (including United States) are yet to install a woman as its chief executive, India was one of the few countries in the world where a woman, Indira Gandhi, had held the highest office of the land. Having Indira Gandhi run the country for 17 years made us feel that women could indeed play a significant role in Indian society.

But even more so, in my religion, Hinduism, I saw some of the greatest symbols of woman’s powers exhibited and worshipped out in the open. In Hinduism, the female deity holds incredible power. For instance, Laxmi is the Goddess of Wealth, Saraswati the goddess of knowledge and Durga holds the power to destroy evil. So, if you have the corner on knowledge, wealth and power what else could one want!! India is not perfect by any means, but growing up with such symbols I never felt insecure about my role in the society as a woman.

Yet we know that countries like US and India are islands in a sea of nations where such freedoms are not enjoyed universally by women. In fact, in many of the “old world” countries, women find themselves shackled by the social mores that may have had a place in 15th or 16th century, but certainly have no place in modern society. In many Arabian countries, women are still not allowed to enjoy basic privilages such as driving a car, or taking a job, or going to movies on their own etc. Repressive regimes such as the Revolutionary Government in Iran, or repressive movements like the Taleban in Pakistan and Afghanistan espouse theological views that are directed at denying the basic human rights to women. Even in India, I am sorry to say, recently there have been incidents of self-righteous conservative men attacking women for enjoying a beverage with their male friends.

So, although we are in the twenty first century, on March 8th there is still a strong reason for celebrating the International Woman’s Day. While in the US we may have reached a stage where we are enjoying these rights, we must remember that there are millions around the world that need our encouragement and support in their daily struggle against the tyranny of government rule or social mores that hold them down.

There are many ways to celebrate this day:

  • One is to learn more about this holiday by visiting the website of International Woman’s Day.
  • Another is to show the women in your life an appreciation for their contributions.
  • Take your mother or sister out for dinner, of if you are a man, take your wife out for dinner.
  • Blog about this day on your blogs and talk about this day in your churches and social groups.
  • If you can, support a woman owned business.

On our side, we are happy to offer everybody a 15% discount* on any of our products. Simply use the phrase “womansday” at the time of checkout to avail of the discount. And yes, you can get this discount even if you are not a woman, but you have to promise to tell some one about the International Woman’s Day!!

*No other offer applies.


Happy Valentine’s Day

For a little girl growing thousands of miles away from the West that gave us St. Valentine, I was very much involved in celebrating the festival with as much gusto as any western woman. Of course I had no clue about why St. Valentine was so important to love, but we girls knew enough to giggle and tease and whisper silly things in each other’s ears about each other’s imagined special one. Unlike here in the US, in Jaipur we didn’t “go out” with some special friend for a night on town - that sort of thing could only be imagined, not done. Instead we would spend the day in company of each other’s best friends, exchange Valentine’s day cards and gossip.

In India, we have a festival to celebrate almost every thing. There is a festival that celebrates the bond between brother and sister called Bhai Duj. There is another festival that reinforces ties between husband and wife - called Karwah Chauth. But for a society that is famous for kinship amongst its women folk, it seems strange that there is no festival to celebrate the bond of friendship between two girl friends. To me, Valentine’s day seemed like so many other Hindu celebrations build around the notion of reinforcing certain ties - viz ties between two friends. So we adopted Valentine’s day as our own festival that celebrated the great love between friends. I still have very fond memories of my school friends even though we are miles apart.

As we grew older, Valentine’s day started to assume romantic notions for us. Indeed, during my college years as soon as February would arrive, notions of romance would infuse the air like the aroma of Jasmine in spring. Of course it was impractical to be romantically involved with some one of opposite sex (only “bad” girls did that). Instead, mostly we spent the Valentine’s day with our best girlfriends day dreaming about “prince charming” and “Mr. Handsome”.

All that ended when I met my husband and moved here to the US. Then, Valentine’s day started to have a special meaning to me and I spent a lot of time thinking about how I would celebrate it. But the opportunity to celebrate it with just my husband was short lived because within two years our first one arrived and being a daughter, now my husband had two girls to help him celebrate the day. This year, the Valentine’s day will be an extra special one in our home because this year we added a new little girl to our family! Jaya has a brand new baby sister - name Jiya. I am just waiting to see what gifts my husband comes up with!!

When it comes to gift, I don’t envy my husband’s position. My birthday in January, so he has to get something for me on that day. Then comes Valentine’s day when he has to get something for the two, now three, of us. Poor man!! Recently I noticed that my husband’s thick head of hair is thinning a bit. I wonder if its the manifestation of age, or if its his predicament on what to buy us girls for the Valentine’s day!

Happy Valentine’s Day.

Ps. We have a special Valentine’s day sale going on - get 10% off on any merchandise on our website. Just use the code “valentine” at the checkout.

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Author: Dr. Madhulika Pareek-Joshi
Authors website: http://www.jayateas.com
About the author: Dr. Madhulika Pareek-Joshi is the President of Jaya Teas, LLC. Dr. Pareek grew up in India in a family steeped in tea industry and tea lore. Many of Dr. Pareek’s uncles and cousins are involved in the Indian tea industry and so, although a medical doctor by profession, Dr. Pareek decided to use her family connections for the benefit of US tea customer, by starting a tea company . Jaya Teas, which specialises in teas from India, has been open for business since 2004. Dr. Pareek invites readers to contribute their comments on her blog Chaiwalah, which can be found at http://www.jayateas.com/blog/
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